Did you ever attend a party and once you got there regretted you went out in the first place? Introverts know what I am talking about.
“The typical introvert tends to have difficulty adjusting to social situations.”
That’s the first and final time you will catch me quoting Carl Jung.
Anyway, after a week in the Facebook community that is precisely how I feel. First of all I said I would NEVER have a Facebook account. Hopefully you (nor God) heard me say that. In previous years, God has heard me say I would NEVER have more than 2 children, NEVER homeschool, NEVER go back to attending Sunday evening church services and NEVER counsel people. God giggles when I use the word NEVER.
Second, I have an email account, a blog, a house phone, a cell phone, a Twitter account, and a pen and paper. What other communication tool could this introvert possibly need?
Third, I am not at all interested in finding out That Much Information about my family. It is a wonderful blessing to live in another state oblivious to the pervasive plastic cup usage by those I love (psssst, kids! Grown-ups use glass!)
And Fourth, I don’t really want to relive high school. I brought my favorite part of those years with me to North Carolina (hi honey!)
So, what WAS I thinking? Guess what? I’m gonna tell ya….
When I peeked over Bob’s shoulder the other night to read his Facebook page, I caught sight of a whole bunch of people I had lost touch with over the last year or so. Now, it’s not like I am absent from THE FRONT OF MY COMPUTER SCREEN 2/3rds
of the day and unavailable for the occasional email; I am unemployed, housebound with a dying cat, and simply love to write; if you email me, I will answer! But several of those currently in my contact list recently, and most mysteriously, disappeared. When I looked at Bob’s page I noticed all of my missing contacts partyin without me!
It was at that moment an idea hit me. Here I sit, tapping away at a keyboard futilely, hoping someone will talk (not meow) to me during the day, someone will read my blog (which I agonizingly update daily) when it occurred to me there is a open forum. An open, FREE forum where I can practice communication skills before I forget how to speak and at the same time shamelessly promote myself. And ya’ll say I’m shy….
Simply said, I plan to one day have my Face on a Book (complete with speaking engagements) and therefore I am USING Facebook to propel me toward my goal. Hey, it’s worth a try.
In the meantime I do want to make a commitment to my family. I am not on here to a) look like the cool mom b) keep tabs on you via your pictures or c) be friends with your friends.
Actually, I will probably end up developing a new Facebook category. Enemies.